What can I do
to stop child abuse
in a public place?

Start a conversation with the adult to direct attention away from the child. For example:

“She seems to be trying your patience.”

“My child sometimes gets upset like that, too.”

“Children can really wear you out sometimes. Is there anything I can do to help?”

Divert the child’s attention (if misbehaving) by talking to the child. For example:

“That’s a great baseball cap. Are you an A’s fan?”

“I like your t-shirt. Did you get that on vacation?”

Look for an opportunity to praise the parent or child. For example:

“She has the most beautiful eyes.”

“That’s a very pretty shirt on your little boy. Where did you get it?”

If the child is in danger, offer assistance. For example:

If the child is left unattended in a grocery cart, stand near the child until the parent returns.

Avoid negative remarks or looks.Negative reactions are likely to increase the parent’s stress or anger and could make matters worse for the child.

From Prevent Child Abuse America